Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?
Last Updated: 23.06.2025 11:49

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.
Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.
BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.
What is your best and worst childhood memory? What was your biggest fear as a child?
Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.
No country for ugly people…
It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.
If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.
That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.
People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.
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